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Sharrie   in reply to Kay5   on

Teaching Respect

The greatest advice I was ever given regarding listening was the mirror technique.  A way to listen and reflect back to the person what you hear.  It is so important to just hear what people say and acknowledge that you hear them, without responding, or judging or filtering.  I wish this active listening was taught in schools, it would go so far to eliminate hurt and fighting and so many conflicts.

The technique says that if you are having a conversation that instead of immediately responding with your own thoughts, you should reply by re-stating what the other person has just told you.  For instance "okay, what I am hearing is that you are frustrated at me because you feel I do not do my share of the housework" or "I hear that you are frustrated in your job because you feel your instructions are vague and you are not given enough support from the rest of the staff".  Then after the reflective statement, you can go on to say how you feel.  

It is also important to use phrases like "i feel", "in my opinion', "from my perspective".  This eliminates accusatory or judgemental statements that have to be defended by the other person. 

The other best manners rule is just to treat people the way we would like to be treated.  It is simple, yet very overlooked.  Thanks for giving attention to an area that is very lacking in education today.  Good Luck

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Sharrie   in reply to SysBot   on

Aidpage group discussing "Medical"...

Here is a link to get a FREE RX discount card.  THis card is good for one year and is NOT an opt-out, meaning you don't have to give any credit card information and there are no automatic payments taken out of any accounts.  Just let the short video on the site play through and then input your email and mailing address and they will send you the card which is good at several major pharmacies and can get you as much as 75% off generic prescriptions.  I know several people who have done this and it has helped them reduce their costs greatly.  It's just a way for the company to let people experience the discounts before they enroll in the plan.

 www.deliveringonthepromise.com/srose

 

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Sharrie  

In Regards to getting financial aid for school when you were working the previous year.  Most of the time you can appeal your financial aid package by writing a letter that explains how your income level will change when you go to school full time.  This seems obvious but the financial aid forms overlook this fact.  I was able to appeal and ended up changing the grant amount from the minimum to the maximum.  It just takes going that extra step.  An extra couple of thousand can make the difference between going to school or not.  hope this helps.

Sharrie Rose

www.affordyourdental.com, $19.95 dental benefits

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Sharrie   in reply to ChantelTrudeau   on

About ChantelTrudeau

My plan is only 14.95/mo for an individual and can get you up to 80% off some dental procedures, including dentures.  The discount varies depending on zip code and provider.  Check out my website and see if this won't make the care you need a little more affordable. 

The other thing I have done in the past is go to dental schools if there happen to be any in your area.  They do work for a very small fee. 

I hope this helps, good luck in your search.

Sharrie Rose, www.affordyourdental.com

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Sharrie  

Some interesting facts about health insurance

It was recently announced that the number of Americans
who have no health insurance rose to 47 million, or nearly 16 percent
of the population, from 44.8 million.  But even people who have coverage through their employers are
 struggling with health care costs.

Insurance, Not Assurance
According to a new study by Consumer Reports, 4 in 10 Americans
can't depend on their health insurance.

"Of the people who had health insurance, some told us they
postponed getting tests or treatment, going to doctor, or filling
prescriptions because they couldn't afford it," says Consumer
Reports senior editor Nancy Metcalf, the report's author. "They
could not pay for their share of their health care over and above
what insurance covered."  Respondents said they raided retirement accounts, borrowed from
 friends and family, or ran up credit cards to pay medical bills.
 Three percent of insured respondents said medical bills forced them
 to declare bankruptcy.

 Coverage Uncovered
 The Consumer Reports National Research Center surveyed 3,000
 Americans between age 18 and 64. Its results mirrored the U.S.
 Census findings: 16 percent had no health plan at all.

 Between 2001 and 2005, the number of middle-income families --
those earning $40,000 to $80,000 for a family of four -- who received
 health insurance through their employers declined by 4 percentage
 points.

 Half of those were because the employer stopped offering coverage
 altogether, or offering dependent coverage; 15 percent gave it up
 because they could no longer afford the premiums.


 Slow to Change
The United States spends $2 billion a year on health care, more
than any other country. But efforts to slow the growth in health care
 costs have failed for a number of reasons, Metcalf explains.

 "People have been conditioned to believe that insurance companies
 are making tons of money by denying care," says Metcalf. "That was
 something they tried to do back in the '90s -- make people go
 through their primary care doctor, make sure the care they
 authorized was necessary.

 "But our entire culture of health care rebelled against it," she
 adds. "Doctors hated being second-guessed, patients felt they were
 being jerked around; hospitals and specialists formed alliances and
 maneuvered themselves into much stronger bargaining positions."

 A Wage-Care Gap
Meanwhile, employers heard loud and clear from workers, who
demanded more choice. "What you see now is that a majority of employees are
 in PPOs [preferred provider organizations], which are much more
 permissive kinds of health plans where you have a large choice of
 doctors and you don't need permission to see a specialist," says
 Metcalf.

 "The truth is that during that window when HMOs [health maintenance
 organizations] were really strictly managing care, health care
costs slowed. Once the brakes came off, health care costs started running
 at two to three times inflation. It's not a sustainable thing when
 wages aren't going up."

 The average family health care plan costs an employer about $12,000
 annually, the report found. To maintain the same level of benefits,
 companies are either keeping wages stagnant or asking employees to
 pay more medical costs -- in higher premium shares or higher co-
pays and deductibles.

 For example, between 2000 and 2006, the percentage of workers with
 single PPO coverage who had a deductible of more than $500 rose to
 38 percent from 14 percent. Last year, one in five employees
 enrolled in HMOs and PPOs had plans that set no upper limit on the
 amount of co-pays and deductibles they might have to pay in a year,
 according to a survey by the Kaiser Family Foundation.

 Open Questions
 With open enrollment scheduled for October at many companies,
 employees may be considering switching plans to save money. But do
 an analysis that goes beyond the cost of the monthly premium.

"Experts told us over and over to think of health care the way you
 think of homeowners insurance," says Metcalf. "Don't evaluate your
 coverage on the basis of how it works when you're healthy; evaluate
 what it will do when someone gets unexpectedly ill."

Most employers provide a summary plan description. Here are a few
 items to look for before you choose:

Calculate the worst-case scenario for hospitalization.
This is the most expensive medical liability. What's the maximum
out- of-pocket cost per family member on an annual basis if an event
like an auto accident results in a long hospital stay?

 Is prescription drug coverage included in the maximum amount
 payable every year?

 "It's the catastrophic illnesses -- cancer in particular -- that
can blindside people," says Metcalf. "Prescription drugs to treat
 lymphoma can run $25,000 a year."

 What's the coverage for outpatient therapies?

This includes tests, physical therapy, home health care, and mental
 health treatment. Also be sure to check if the plan covers "durable
 medical equipment." This is a must when oxygen equipment is needed
 at home for a child who has asthma, say, or for other equipment
such as a wheelchair.

If you're choosing among several plans, check online to see if
 your state department of insurance has received complaints about
 them.

 Considering all of these questions, a discount benefit plan, or Consumer Driven Health Care, may be a better way to go.  There are many such companies providing discount plans, just apply these same questions to any plan you consider joining.

Sharrie Rose, www.affordyourdental.com

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Sharrie   in reply to mandaxx   on

About mandaxx

You could try a discount benefit plan.  It will reduce your out-of-pocket costs a lot.  It's only $20 to start and you can cancel when you are finished with the work.  Some providers may be willing to work out payments with you once you are on a plan.  Let me know if you have questions about this.  My website is www.affordyourdental.com

 

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Sharrie   in reply to The Wizard   on

Government Grants

 in response to eric11...   

You could try to find a Consumer Driven health Benefit plan.  I represent one that is very inexpensive,the link is below, but if you do a search for "health benefits" or "discount health benefits" you will find many more and so you can compare.   

The difference in discount plans is they are specifically designed to bring the cost of health and dental care down to an affordable level for those who are having to pay out-of-pocket.  Also, many of these plans have hospital advocacy which is a service that negotiates the cost of hopital procedures according to your income, etc.  You can negotiate directly with the hospitals yourself, but they don't like to tell you this.  Anyway, look into these plans, many, like my basic plan are under $50 a month.  Good Luck

www.affordyourdental.com (has health info as well)

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Sharrie   in reply to The Wizard   on

Government Grants

 in response to fresh...   

It is very difficult to establish independence as it applies to school scholarships.  I pretty much had to wait till I was 24 to go to school because then I qualified for so much more help.

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Sharrie   in reply to AidpageTeam   on

AidpageTeam

This sounds like a great program.   I would like to participate. 

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Sharrie  

About Sharrie

I live and work in Central Oregon.  I work on the Crooked River Dinner Train.  I LOVE the work but it is highly seasonal.  I also am trying to get a home business started.  I sell discount dental and health benefits.  I really believe in this company as it offers a service that people really need, so even during hard economic times, it makes sense. 

I am primarily looking for some kind of grant which would allow me to invest in advertising and marketing in order to build my client base. 

I am also looking for historical or tourism grants that the city of Prineville might use to restore the train and get it in good shape.  The train could use some advertising also.

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